I Hate My Teenage Daughter

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Common Sense Media says

Iffy messages about parent-child relations; some language.
greenON: Content is age-appropriate for kids this age.
yellowPAUSE: Know your child; some content
may not be right for some kids.
redOFF: Not age-appropriate for kids this age.
not for kidsNOT FOR KIDS: Not appropriate for kids any age.

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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this comedy features parents who seem unwilling or incapable of disciplining and setting boundaries for their teenage daughters. There's lots of bratty behavior, sneaking around, and lying. Drinking (hard liquor, beer) is visible, the teens like to dress in revealing clothing, and references are made to teen pregnancy. There's also lots of salty language ("damn," "bitch," "dumb ass") and references to stores like The Gap.

  • The series underscores how difficult it can be to raise teenage daughters, but it also shows how adults can fail to be responsible parents. And it demonstrates what can happen when children are overindulged and/or aren't taught to respect boundaries. References to racism (as a negative thing).
  • Sophie and Mackenzie are often bratty, disrespectful, and sneaky, and they lie. Their parents love them but aren't always willing to discipline them and/or make them face the consequences of their actions.
  • Yelling and screaming sometimes result when Annie and Nikki try to discipline Sophie and Mackenzie.
  • References to teen pregnancy. The teens like to dress in sexually provocative clothes that are often deemed inappropriate by their parents.
  • Words like "damn," "bitch," and "dumb ass" are frequent.
  • References to The Gap and other establishments popular with teens.
  • Drinking is referenced, and alcohol (hard liquor; beer) consumption is visible.

What's the story?

I HATE MY TEENAGE DAUGHTER stars Jaime Pressly and Katie Finneran as Annie and Nikki, two divorced mothers who are struggling with their teenage daughters, Sophie (Kristi Lauren) and Mackenzie (Aisha Dee). To make up for their own difficult upbringings, these moms have allowed their daughters to get away with things and become spoiled brats. Their indulgent fathers, Matt (Eric Sheffer Stevens) and Gary (Chad Coleman), aren't very helpful when it comes to disciplining them, either. Only Matt's brother, Uncle Jack (Kevin Rahm), and the girls' obnoxious high school principal, Deanna Diego (Rosa Blasi), are willing to point out the necessity of taking a tough stance when teaching the two girls right from wrong. Tough love doesn't come easy to the women, but they continue to look for ways to teach their daughters some lessons while coping with their obnoxious behavior.


Is it any good?

 

The series attempts to take a humorous look at the challenges that come with raising teenage daughters. But what it really does is center on adults who love their daughters but are unwilling to take a tough stance with their children when necessary. The show pits the mothers against the daughters and shows how easily the girls resort to disrespect, insults, and even lying to get what they want while their moms beg them to listen, behave, and/or love them. Meanwhile, their fathers prefer to placate their girls rather than face the conflicts that inevitably arise from setting strict disciplinary boundaries.

Granted, the moms often find ways to get back at their daughters for their sneaky behavior, but the problem is that it's often done in a way that's secretive and passive-aggressive. As a result, the young women never appear to understand (or care that much about) the consequences of their actions, and lessons never seem to be learned. Some viewers may find all of this relatable and funny, but the underlying message the show is sending about parent-teen relationships isn't so rosy.


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What families can talk about

  • Families can talk about Sophie and Mackenzie's negative behavior. Why is what they do inappropriate? Why aren't their parents more willing to be strict with them?

  • Do you think featuring these kinds of parent-teen relationships on a comedy series is intended to serve as a warning to both kids and parents? Or does it encourage negative behavior by making it seem funny without highlighting the negative consequences that will come as a result?

  • What would be the real-life consequences of some of the behavior featured on the show?


This review was written by Melissa Camacho
Adult
November 19, 2011
 
what is the world coming to
i was just siting in my living room watching tv one night and all at once an ad for this rude and crude show comes on my televison and this title dose not make me to happy at all and this show dose not even look funny

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Adult
November 30, 2011
 
Awful!
This was a really stupid show. I only watched it because it was on after X Factor. I will not watch it again and I strongly recommend that anyone, with or without children, stay away!

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Kid, 13 years old
December 20, 2011
 
Super cool
I loved it super funny! and appropriate for all ages! My friends and I friends watch it all the time!!! So glad they made this show!!

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Parent
February 5, 2012
 
CRAPPY , negative, insidious
NEGATIVE, misleading, very sad scenes covered up with recorded laughs (trying to make it funny, when it's really sad) I strongly recomend you change chanels when you see this crap coming.!

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This review was written by Melissa Camacho
TV rating:TV-14
Network:Fox
Cast:Jaime Pressly, Katie Finneran, Kevin Rahm
Genre:Comedy

This review was written by Melissa Camacho
 

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